INTRODUCTION
Nowadays , there's a lot of cases we can see on the television , heard on the radios and read on the newspaper of people who commit suicide.Some kill him/herself by using a knife , blade or any sharp materials just to cut off their veins on their wrist , drinking or eating poisons and the usual way of suicide is that , jumping off a high building.Life is precious right ? It is given to us by God and He's the only one who can take it back. So why is that somesome of us kill our ownself? What factors that leads individual to commit suicide ?And as individual , how can we prevent our ownself in commiting suicide?
BACKGROUND OF THE STUDY
People commit suicide everyday in the world . It is an ugly but truthful thing in the world as we know it today. When we say suicide " a person who kills himslef or self-murder." I chosed this topic because it is very important for us to know why there's still some person who commit suicide. We must know those different reasons that leads them of killing themselves. As an individual , we can also keep our ownself aware of those factors that can lead us in committing suicide. Also this study will help us to control ourself when we are experiencing severe problem or burdened by trials.
STATEMENT OF THE PROBLEM
Whyis some of us kill our ownself? What factors that leads individual to commit suicide ?And as individual , how can we prevent our ownself in commiting suicide?
CHAPTER II
Some people's situation put them in a more likely position to commit suicide.Many people commit suicide of course for many different reasons. A big reason why people commit suicide is because of family problems.Family problems is one of the factors why some people commit suicide.
A person's family has a huge part on an individual's life.Children that get abuse by their parents or sibblings are more likely the reason why a person commit suicide.Children that get neglected by all people in their houseis also a lot more likely to take their own life . Most children that are put ninto these situation feel that they have nowhere to go for help. These children probably feel very confused and very alone at such a youn age that the resort to suicide.Carol Watkins a M.D states that "Social isolation is a major factor for suicide" Some people also commit suicide because they want to rebel against their family. They commit suicide because they dont wnat to deal with the authority of their family. Absolutely some may feel that they would rather die than deal with that kind of authority.Problems with people's relationships can also be a major reason that people commit suicide.Some people when they break up with someone who they love or loved for a very long time dont know how to deal with being by themselves. Some feel that they're going to be alone forever and some feel they can't possibly live without that person in their side so they prefer to just end their life. Breaking up in a relationship can also be breaking up a friendship. In some cases people commimt suicide just to make other person feel bad . They feel that all the sadness and pain the other person has caused upon them , they can give it back to the person by killing theirself and making the other person heel guilty. Patricia Spark , a writer states that " Extreme stress circumstances in life situations can lead to suicide"
People commit suicide because of problems with their careers.It could be because they lose their job , because of too much stress in work , or just dont feel successful or meaningful in their chosen carreer. Many people who love their job have no idea that its going to happen so they are not prepare for it . Some people may feel that they dont have any option in their life and they're thingking that suicide is their only option and is the easiest possible solution to their problems.And the most common reason why people commit suicide is because of their problems at school. Problems with school are also a big reason that people commit suicide. Some students have so much pressure on them to do well in school its hard for them to deal with that pressure in school.If a student have a lot of presure on themselves to do well and end up failing to do so , it could make them feel that it would be easier to end their life rather than dealing with that kind of pressure.David A. Gershaw , Ph.D states that " College students are twice as likely to kill theirself as are non-students of the same age." College students are a big risk to commit suicidefor this particular reason. Their pressure to succed is intensified because nowadays , we all know that college is a very big investment. All of the money they are spending ir their parents are spending on their college education means that they have a lot more riding on their success.College students have all of these pressures plus most of them are burdened with independence and responsibility for the very first time is more likely for a student to commit suicide.
We as an individual can also prevent our ouwnself in commiting suicide.
We must have a happy outlook in life. We must learn how to appreciate little things and give importance to it just as like giving importance to our life. We must be optimistic in everyday of our life. All of us also need an outlet for us to speak out our feelings and shout out our emotions. Stop living inside the box , widen your horizon and expand your territory. Learn to share your load to others so that it'll be easy for you to live in this world and learn to trust others.
We as an individual , we must also learn how to control our feelings. We must have patience tot hose things that burdened us and think that God set that challenge in out path because He knows that we can surpass it. And lastly , always remember that you are not ALONE ! As what a qoute said " No man is an island "
There's always someone out there who are willing to help you , willing to accompany you and who are always willing to hear your story. Always thinnk that there's a lot of person who care for you , thinking of you and who always love you . Think of your family , bestfriends , friends , neighbors , classmates and your beloved teachers. They will always be there whenever you need someone to talk to. All you need to do is to approach them , dont be shy , just try and put a trust on them .
CONCLUSION
Killing our ownself is more likely hurting our love ones. We are not the only one who suffer but also those persons who loved us , care for us and had a lot of dreams for us just as like our friends , teachers and our parents . Think of our parents who endured a lot of struggles just to raise us well . Who are working hard just to give us educatioin which can give us a good future. Therefore it could be concluded that suicide is not a good thing to do . Suicide is not the best solution to solve your problems. It will just give you another problem or left a problem to your love ones. Suicide will ruin not only your life but also your love one's life especially your families life.
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